Note: This post was written for our friends at SOFII.org, who asked us to add our voices to their It’s Just Not Fair post. We’d love to hear what you think!
By: Beth Ann Locke and Jen Love
What a great discussion to champion! Thank you, SOFII! These most certainly are conversations we have amongst ourselves – as women, as fundraisers, as mothers and partners, and mentors and coworkers. We stand together committed to moving the needle on gender parity and pay equity.
You declare, “It’s just not fair!”
And, indeed, it isn’t.
Let’s talk about this idea of fairness. There is one big problem with fairness. Fairness is a moving target. You’ve likely heard this quote, or something similar: “When you’re accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression.”
Instead of attempting to make things fair, let’s create an inclusive circle for dialogue, since conversation is the starting point of change. Let’s create an open space for discussion and conversation about parity and equity.
We believe that to have this open conversation, and to move our sector forward from the “unfair” position it is in, we need to begin with three solid ways to move change forward: awareness, reflection and action.
Here are 6 ways you can work toward openness. And we can. All of us. Today. Right now.
- Determine your baseline. Consider the people you have NOW as your baseline in your non-profit. How do the positions of power (managers, directors, CEO, board members) fall along the continuum of gender? Who holds the higher-paid, higher-power positions? And who the lower-paid, lower-power positions? Is one group filling most of the positions, and if they are, is the pay equal for men, women and those non-conforming to gender roles?
- Change up recruitment. Set a goal to move the needle in your recruitment. How are you recruiting your staff and board? If, for example, you find your event staff tends to be all younger women, consider HOW you are advertising this role in the first place. Are you using biased language that would be more attractive to younger women? Reflect on your current practices and set new goals around encouraging diversity by changing the language in your postings.
- Get rid of the “code”. If you find that many in positions of leadership are men, consider how you are advertising those positions, too. Saying your nonprofit “is looking someone who has been in a leadership position for 15+ years” may naturally attract dominant culture people–mostly older white men. Reflect on what your non-profit actually needs and do the hard work of stripping away coded language that may tell people of colour and women “you aren’t really wanted”. We suggest you learn more for yourself, and your team, about stereotyping and bias, including interview bias.
- 24 hours before you were founded… Imagine what was happening in the dark hours before your organization was founded. A group of restless, passionate people stood together and demanded more for your cause. And, in all likelihood, your organization, at its roots, is represented by a diverse community of change agents. Is this still reflected in your board members? Your program staff? Your leadership, communications and fundraising staff?
- Whose voices are you listening to? For instance, as you’re staying connected to emerging trends by reading and sharing blogs, attending webinars and conferences, and engaging in social media, how much of what you are consuming or supporting is from the dominant culture? Are you favouring familiar and dominant culture over being open to other voices? What amazing and inspiring voices are you missing because you’re in a bit of an echo chamber.
- Talk. Talk to colleagues you trust, if you’re not used to having these conversations. Reach out to SOFII, to the other bloggers posting in this series. Be brave and introduce yourself to us. Sharing our collective experiences with gender-based (and other) biases and what we’re doing about it is the only way to make change.
We need to make this change together.
What we want you to take away is that awareness, reflection and action are the three ingredients we need to make change. And the vehicle for this change is open-hearted conversations.
Finally—and what we believe is the most important of all—explore emotional intelligence as a professional skill. We believe this is a component of leadership that is missing today, and will be the way of the future. More on that in our post, Part 2, coming to you soon.
Let’s start the conversation here and now. Have you had experience practicing awareness, reflection and action toward gender and/or pay equity? Or worked to change coded job posting language or learned about interview bias? We would love to have you share your experiences below – whether they were successful or not. Doing is the first step!
Let’s open this up to ALL aspects of the work of your non-profit, not just the high paying jobs, and make it go both ways.
Are you fundraising for a school? Are all of the teachers female? Stop! Start hiring only male teachers until you get the ratio to 50/50.
Are you running a capital campaign to construct a new building? Are the roofers for the new building all male? Stop! Hire women roofers and laborers.
Are you giving new mothers paid maternity leave but not new fathers? Stop! Offer both men and women the same amount of time off when they have a new child.
Are you fundraising for a hospital where the majority of the nurses are female? Stop! Hire only male nurses until the ratio evens out.
Are you fundraising for a college or university where (like most) 60% of the matriculating students are female? Stop! Only admit male students until the ratio evens out.
Are you fundraising for a healthcare charity? Women live, on average, 3 years longer than men. Unfair! Start ONLY funding research into male health issues until we get the lifespans evened out.
Are you working for a large non-profit that has an HR department? Is your HR staff almost exclusively female (80% of HR department workers are female). If so, Stop! Only hire men until your HR department evens out.